So many things in life require time and endurance. Occasionally we let go of particular hopes or dreams because it’s not realistic (link), whilst there are others that are worth holding on to. The desire and need to keep going becomes a part of your character but if you’re not born with this, how can you train your mind to never give up.
As kids, we just want the easy way or the quick way to be the sole and better way. Some parents make things easier for their kids so that they don’t learn to wait for something they want which means they do not know to be patient. Once they’re grown up and find themselves in the real world, they find themselves bumping heads with people because patience is not their strong point.
As an adult you can train your mind to keep going in the face of hardship. It’s not simple but it’s possible. Firstly, you will need to make up your mind to do this. It needs to be a priority to not give up on a particular dream. Daily say to yourself that you will not give up and that you will keep going no matter what happens.
Surround yourself with positive people who encourage you and avoid any one who tells you it is impossible. These negative people may change your mind and what you need to do most is to have a clear focus on the target.
Write your goal down or create a fantasy board with pictures to illustrate what you’re hoping for. Look at it every day and remind yourself of why you are being patient.
Do your research and discover how you can reach your dream. A dream is just a dream if it is not supported with a plan. Implement your plan by means of a step by step strategy. When you are able to tick off a step after it has been completed you’ll feel a sense of achievement. This will bring you one step closer to your objective.
If your goal is to have a baby and you determine that infertility is a reality, it does not mean you should give up at that point. See a fertility doctor, find out what is causing the infertility and think about fertility treatment choices. Write down the strategy, the plan and the goal. It takes time to reach your target, but don’t quit.
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